In the Cah! Part 2 (Day 31: 3/31/10)

What's the good news!

Hey, AWESOME news today. Another huge manifestation that I am proud, proud, proud to announce! Let me just say, I LOVE getting mail. I always have. I probably always will. Proof, today.

My sis muttered that the mail was here on her way downstairs and my heart stopped. I wanted that letter. I wanted it today, in that moment, and I wanted it bad! I saw that letter there, and when I opened the mailbox, it was there!

The letter regarding my acceptance to the new college I want to attend. Interesting enough, earlier today, I was texting back and forth with a friend from my old college and she was shocked that I had such new plans. We don't exactly keep in touch. I will tell you exactly what I told her. I said, I finish community college this summer, and I AM going to (Insert new College name) in the fall. I kid you not. There was a brief moment when I was typing where I put, I am hoping to go to such and such in the fall, but I stopped. I don't HOPE to get in there. I AM going there, and I AM excited to do so! So I quickly backspaced the "hoping to get in" part.

Well guesssss what?????

yup....I GOT IN!!!!! I am way too excited! In total celebration mode over here! I just absolutely NEEDED to share that with you! It's awesome and I love this!

With that said, let's go back to what we were talking about yesterday.

FOR THE EASILY ANGERED DRIVER:

So you can't get to your destination without feeling like you just went through a cycle of not just road rage, but 'roid rage. This could make the drive a bit...um...not fun. We're going to try and fix this.

1. Heavy Traffic

Mmkay. I know how frustrating heavy traffic can be. You're stuck in one place for what seems like forever, and your bored and irritated. Not to mention late for work. But stop and think about it. Is your anger helping the situation here? Think about that spiral of negative feelings. You're PO that such and such happened, and then because you sent a negative vibration, and you are in the state of allowing more of that negativity to flow into your experience, you're going to get more of it. Think about the last time you were caught in a traffic jam. When you screamed and cursed did it get any better? Probably not. It probably got worse. So here's what I want you to do:

Since you're not going to dismantle those angry feelings overnight, you have to start finding reasons to be happy. The easiest way is to look around you. There are many things that we fly by in our cars everyday and miss because we are unplugged from what's around us. You're stuck. You've got time. Take a look. You'll notice how beautiful the scenery is. Pretty flowers, nice fresh looking grass, or if you get lucky like me, you'll get to see a family of three deer hanging out at the front of the woods. Find one thing, then you'll find another, and then another, and so on and before you know it the traffic is moving again!


2. Other Drivers

A lot of what I said can be applied here, so I'll try not to repeat too much. I know that other people are not you. Do you know, accept, and believe this? You cannot control what other people do. You should neither try or want to. Does this make sense to you? Okay, good. But what about when their decisions are affecting you? Then what? Well I am actually still learning about this subject, but let me share with you my opinion.

Other people only affect you if you ALLOW them to do so. If the person in front of you is going 15 MPH in a 45 zone, okay, you could be irritated, bothered by this. But I say why? You are in your car headed to where you want to go, and due to the laws of the universe, as long as you are continuously moving in the direction of your destination, you are going to end up there. So what if it takes slower than you expected? You get there don't you? Not only do you get there, but you arrive safely. What exactly is the problem? "Oh but I'm late! I don't get to do such and such because of that old granny holdin' me up! Ah. Well then my friend if you say you are late, and you believe that you are late, if you allow yourself to be late, then I guess you're late my friend. Think about it.

(A note on time: I personally believe that time is something created by humans. In my opinion only, I say that the beings that we truly are outside of these beautifully embroidered shells we currently live in have no concept or understanding of time. What IS time after all? I always wondered. I mean there's plenty of scientist who would love to discuss that with me with fancy big latin-y words and heavy loaded math equations, but would that really answer it for me? who knows?)

Bottom line is to keep tally of how you feel. Feel Good Now. Always now. find something to make you feel happy and good, and then good experiences will follow.


With that said, I am loving everything bunches right now, and that includes you! Know that because we are connected through this wonderful universe, we are like-minded, you are my friend. I appreciate that. I feel good now. How about you?